What’s It Cost to Change Your Life? (It’s Not What You Think)

What does it really cost to change your life? In this bold solo episode, Crissy Conner breaks down the myth that higher investment always equals higher transformation. From $33 programs to $25K masterminds, Crissy shares the mindset and actions that actually create momentum.

She walks you through the 85/10/5 framework—where most people settle, where growth begins, and where true leadership lives. You’ll reflect on whether you’re showing up inside your programs or silently self-sabotaging with inaction.

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Transcript

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There's a great question that I want to ask you today, and that is, what does it cost to change your life? What's the price on changing your life? Does cost $33? Does it cost $10,000? Does it cost $25,000? This is a very interesting question because I used to be in the belief that a $33, a $44 program could not change my life. And here's what I have learned. All of those prices have changed my life. It didn't matter as much as how much it cost as it did what I did with it. How I showed up. How I implemented. We had a program in April that was called visible and in demand. It ranged from I think the starting price was 111. It's 177 now. Probably gonna increase it because there was so much transformation in that program. And we did something called deepening work, not homework, not inspired actions, deepening work, because it really required the person to do the work. Did everybody do the work? No. Did some people do the work probably in silence? Absolutely. But it was an opportunity to reflect on your own and then also get feedback from me. And there are many programs that I've paid tons of money for and didn't get the ROI. At least in that moment. We'll say that at least in that moment and there are plenty of programming that I have masterminds uh Closer proximity programs that I've paid for that I have 10x 20x the ROI Now again doesn't matter if it was 33 44 $333$10,000, $12,000, $25,000. It really doesn't matter. It's up to me. And so I see so many people getting into spaces. and they disappear. They get into spaces and you don't hear from them. They get into spaces and they're not doing the work. I was in a challenge once, it wasn't my personal challenge, it was someone else's and we started out with like 200 and some people and it was a 50, I think, day challenge. By the time we got to the end, there were like 15 people still. participating. Things happen, 100%, I get things happen. Things come up, 100%, I get things come up. But how many times do we just allow distractions and we don't have a focus and we allow other intentions that don't move the needle forward to pull us away from being on track? it really Yes, the amount of money you spend can 100 % up level you it can really do something to your comfort zone and call you up. I've done that. And also challenging yourself and every single program you put yourself in can also do something when you're quiet. I love being quiet. I love being behind the scenes like I still do to this day. But when I do the deepening work, when I do the introduction, when I do all the things that are out of my comfort zone, because I just don't want to do them or I just don't like doing them. It makes all those things that happen in life that are really uncomfortable that we don't expect or plan for a lot easier to handle because I purposely create discomfort. by doing the work, by doing the things, by participating, by looking, if I'm asked in homework, deepening work, whatever you wanna call it, when I look deeper into who I am and what I'm doing and how I'm showing up, it's a game changer. There is a quote that 85%, or quote, a study, a study that 85 % of us are okay. We're okay where we're at. We're okay. So 85 % of the people that are in the world are okay. They may complain, but they're never gonna do anything about where they're at. 10 % of the world want to create change, like they want to change. They're willing to do the work. And 5 % are willing to help. the 10 % do that massive work on themselves because they're gonna be the leaders, they're gonna go first, they're gonna do the uncomfortable things. So I don't know where you're at in that 85, 10 or five, but here's the thing, I was in the 85. I loved my life in the 85. I loved my comfort zone. And then I realized, This what's happening. This isn't what I want my life to look like. This isn't what I want. And so I shifted to the 85, or sorry, I shifted to the 10 and then I shifted to the five. because that's what I want my life to be. I want it to be different. I don't wanna be average. I'm okay going the extra mile and really being where there's not more competition, right? There's a lot of competition in the 10%. There's not a lot of competition in the five. There's a heck of a lot of competition in the 85. Don't get me wrong. So what are you gonna do with the $33 program? What are you gonna do with a $44? Matter of fact, in November, a $44 program completely transformed my life, had me upgrade to a $25,000 mastermind, $44 to 25K. In the marketing world and in all the masterminds I've been in that I started in, no one would understand where's the middle ground. There should be another step. There was no other step. I didn't need another step. What are you doing inside the containers that you pay for? What are you doing? What are you doing if you're downloading freebies? Are they sitting in your inbox, junking it up? Again, what do you decide to do with it? Proximity costs more money, 100%. Proximity takes you to that 5 % and to that next level. Not everybody is ready or willing or wanting that proximity. But there's something that everybody can learn in those price points, specifically group programming. that are going to give you the opportunity to transform your life, give you the opportunity to create change. But if you say no or you say yes and then get inside and don't do anything, it doesn't serve you. There are lots of things that I have, I probably shouldn't have bothered that. And I said, you know what? Let's make the most of it. Let's do something about it. I can regret or I can make something happen because of it. And even those programs that I didn't get the ROI while was inside, I made sure I got the ROI after I left. It's up to you. Are you the 85, the 10, or the five? Which one do you wanna be? You can change, you can transform your life. It really takes a decision, a split second decision that I don't want to be this anymore or I don't wanna feel this way anymore to change. I'm challenging you. What's the next step for you? And maybe you're like, I'm the 10, but I want to go to eight. Okay. Or maybe I'm the five, but I want to go to four. Okay. Let's go. I'm here to support you in whatever way that looks like. Reach out to me and we can chat and see what that looks like for you, your business, your growth, your visibility, your comfort zone, cause we want to stretch it. and really serve and support you to take it to the next level.