The Comeback Masterclass Bonus Episode

Enjoy this temporary bonus episode of The Comeback. When life, business, or confidence knocks you down, this is how you rise, rebuild, and return stronger. Your next season doesn’t start when someone else picks you. It starts the moment you decide to come back. 

Everything I’ve shared today is the exact foundation I still use,  but your comeback doesn’t stop with one decision. OMNI gives you the structure, support, and system to keep momentum alive day after day.  See you on the inside https://omniqueens.com/

OMNI is my full visibility system built for CEOs who want to grow online without living on their phone. If you’re ready to be truly seen, more strategic, and unmistakably in demand, head to check out OMNI at www.omniqueens.com 

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So excited, yes, heck yes, I love all the excitement. Grabbing refills. Yes, you need refills. Comeback is stronger than my setback. Absolutely, absolutely. This is going to be an amazing masterclass, and if you attended last night's, I'm just going to call this out. Today's is going to be 10 times better, because first, I've already done it once, right? And we get better with everything that we do. And here is a big secret, are you ready for it? Every comeback that you create actually makes it easier for the next comeback. So when we do things and we put in the reps, it's actually going to serve and support us on the long run, the wrong run, right? So this is all huge. So the fact that you're here first number one tells me that you're ready to make it happen, and I just want you to congratulate yourself for being here. And the second thing is, is that, first of all, there is no magic pill. There is no like I just going to wish and hope for my comeback, or when this happens, I'll have my comeback. No, it actually is you deciding to take action, and throughout today's masterclass, I'm going to ask you for micro commitments, meaning that I am going to ask you to drop things in the chat, I am going to ask you questions, I'm going to ask you to write things down, and I challenge you to do this, because it is going to make the experience so much different for you, but it's also going to serve and support you on an entirely different level. Okay, so I'm super excited about today, and I cannot wait to hear all the takeaways for this class. So with that being said, welcome and let's get started. So we are going to talk about several things today, and I kind of want to just fill you in on what's going to happen. My goal is to keep you about an hour. That's it. We're going to talk about the shift that changes everything. We're going to talk about rebuilding your momentum from zero. We're going to talk about what to focus on for faster opportunities. Because, you know, you create this comeback, right? And you'd make this decision to have this comeback. And then we want to, we want to, we want to start taking action, right? And we want to start getting results. And then we're going to talk about the comeback framework, and how you can continue to come back from things that bring you down, things that pull you down, and all of those sorts of things, right? And when you stay to the end, you are going to get clarity on your next move. You're going to get a what's next to create momentum and strategy after your comeback. And then we're going to do live coaching questions and answers at the end. So if you have personal questions, write them down. If something pops up that I say and I don't answer it before the end, and I will answer it at the end of this. So with that being said, Who's ready to get started? Alright, I love the hand raising. I love it. I'm here for this. Okay, so who is ready for their comeback drop a yes or a no in the chat? There's no judgment here, by the way. Okay, and the second question I want to ask you is, when you hear the word come back. What comes to your mind when you hear the word come back? Yes, hell yes. Love it. Starting over, ooh, yeah, what other words come to mind? Picking up where I left off. Okay. What else we got, getting better and taking steps to be better every day. A reboot. Absolutely, absolutely so I've had a lot of comebacks. I feel like there was a pause and now I'm back. Oh, so, almost like somebody hit the pause button and now they press play again. That's interesting. So I've had a lot of comebacks. I've had a lot. I've had to come back in 2025 I've had to come back in 2024 I've had to come back in 2023 like every year, it feels like something happens, right? Does anybody else feel that? Like there's always something right? And sometimes it's things in our business, like a launch, I'm eating my hair. There's a launch that maybe didn't go the way that we planned, or sales aren't going the way that we plan, or maybe we set ourselves a deadline for something and we didn't get it done, and we're like, Okay, what's why does it matter now? Like nobody, nobody knew my deadline but me, so I'm just going to give up, or I'm going to slow down. You know, giving yourself grace is totally different than. You know, like, let's not, let's not push forward with the plan and the goal. The other thing is that you could have a personal thing happen, right? And the thing is that we forget, especially when it comes to visibility, when things happen in our personal life, the one of the first things to go and raise your hand if you feel this, I'm saying this as somebody who is extremely visible, is that we hide. When things happen in our personal life, we hide. Or maybe we don't mean to hide. Maybe we almost just don't have the energy to show up. And then we probably do end up having the energy to show up, but we've hid for so long, right? That it becomes that's our momentum. That's not the momentum we want, but that's our momentum, right? That's our consistent action is not showing up. And so we want to know how to get over these things and how to work through these things. That's why I like having content scheduled. Yes, absolutely, absolutely, life. Can life 100% so one of my most memorable comebacks, and the one that people love me to tell the most, is my story in 2020 and I probably always tell this story differently, and I'm pretty sure I told it last night a little different than you've ever heard it. So in the year 2020, like life was definitely life, and wasn't a friend's you remember that year? Well, the year started actually getting better after we were no longer in lockdown, or whatever you want to call it. And so it started getting better, and I got some new clients. And I had this one client who who had a 90 day commitment. I'm going to go ahead and just be honest, Crissy had no boundaries back then, no boundaries, which is part of why I needed to come back. But anyhow, she had a nine day commitment. I ran her ads, um, we had the call we had before her third month, which would have been her last commitment month, she could have been month. Month after that, she was asking me how to do all these things with her ads, and so I was showing her because I believe knowledge is power, and I, even though I run people's ads, and I've ran people's ads, I still want them to know how to do it, right? I had no idea what was really happening. You probably already can figure out what she was going to do. But anyhow, her payment was automatic payment, and her night, her her last commitment payment came out, and she messaged me, and she goes, Oh, I need it. I need you to refund me that money. And I said, why? And she said, I said, you have a 90 day commitment. She goes, Yeah, I'm, I'm not going to, I'm going to do the ads myself. And I was like, oh, oh. And I said, Okay, well, you actually have a 90 day commitment. And she goes, Yeah, I want a refund, or I'm going to do a chargeback on my card, and I need the money. And I was like, okay, so I refunded this person's money, and 24 hours later, I saw that she paid in full for and she got congratulated online. She took that money that I refunded and paid somebody else for their program. Talk about a hit to my ego, to my my self esteem, to my self confidence. Like talk about a hit, right? So most of you have heard the September story, but you didn't hear the August story, and that was what preceded the September story, which is I looked on September 3, I only saw $2,000 coming into my account. And I messaged my mentor at the time, and I and I was paying $1,000 a month for her mastermind, and I said, I'm, this is the last month I could be in the mastermind. I can't afford it. Like, I there's no way I'm gonna, like, I'm just gonna have to quit. I can't, I can't, like, live on this money. And we had a conversation, and everybody always wants to know what she says, It was nothing. Eye opening, right? She goes, Well, you have a decision make. I'm like, You're right. I do have a decision to make. And I said, You know what? I don't really want to get a job. I'm going to do everything I can, and I'm going to put everything into this that I can, and I'm not going to give up, but I also see the reality, no magic, miracles are probably going to happen, right? And I remember a week later, messaging her and saying, I landed a client. I don't even know what's happening right now, and I have three more proposals out. And she said, Crissy, I still have the boxer. She said, Crissy, you tapped in. And before I knew, in three weeks time, I had created so much recurring revenue that I never thought was possible. I never imagined I can make that much money ever why? Because I decided that even though I thought I was going to be done with my business in 30 days, I wasn't going to give up. I wasn't going to roll over and wait for it to happen. I decided that I was going to take action. How many people have ever been just like, whether you're over your ish or you're just like, I am going to make this happen. I am done with the way things are going. And it really was that turn it that that moment, that that opportunity, that I just said, What do I have to lose by going all in, what do I have to lose by putting myself out there? What do I have to lose cuz I was going to quit anyhow. I was going to go get a nine to five. Cuz there was no other there was no other option. And the thing is, is that I could've quit. I did a video in 2022, and it was, it's called you, many of you may have seen it, if you've been around a while, but it was in my free group, and it's called the day I they almost killed my business, and I would have kissed almost$300,000 goodbye that I had made in those two years, because I looked at my bank account on the September 3 and thought there was no way that I could make this happen, or I could pull this out. Not a jov, there's nothing wrong. In 2016 I went and got a job. So not saying there's anything wrong with that. I was like, I need a job to supplement what I'm making. So I totally get that. But this was like, it was, it was like, either, you know, you have a decision to make, and are you going to be okay with this, or are you going to, are you going to take action, right? And so the thing is, is that if you've ever felt invisible, if you've ever felt stalled, if you've ever felt stuck, if you've ever felt like there was no way out of the situation that you're in, it's time for you to have your comeback season. And here's the thing I want you to know right now, this is like the best news ever. Who's ready for the best news ever? Because I'm going to give it to you. Okay? I've created comebacks almost every single year, whether again it was the situation I told you about. There was a launch that flopped. There was a personal Crissy. There was somebody close to me that really hurt me, and our friendship ended on social media, and everybody was like asking me what was happening, and I wasn't spilling the tea. But the thing is, is that you've made it through your worst days 100% that means your comeback record is undefeated. If you are here in this moment, you are still alive. Now I'm not saying your comeback ended the way you wanted it to. I'm not saying that, but I am saying you have made it your comeback record is undefeated, even if you didn't like the results of the way things turned out. Can you own that? Can you own that your record is undefeated when it comes to comebacks, when it comes to breakthroughs, when it comes to getting back on the horse, right? Your comeback record is undefeated. You have survived 100% of your worst days again. I'm not saying they weren't painful, I'm not saying they didn't hurt. I'm not saying they didn't have lasting effects, but at the end of the day, you have survived because you wouldn't be on this zoom right now, if you are no longer with us, and I just want you to celebrate that right now. Celebrate you, celebrate yourself, own, that you are where you are, because you have survived 100% of your worst days. And I know there was pain, and I know there was grief, and I know there might have felt like suffering, and I know there might have been a lot of things, but that's in the past. What are you going to do now? Your comeback does not take years, my friends, because it only actually takes a second, a a split second decision that you're not going to stay where you're at anymore. Drop in the chat. Can you agree that you are you have survived things in your life that you thought would take you out, and that you're still here, and that a comeback is always possible. Totally agree, yes, yes, yes, yes. And in the chat, have you ever had a season where you felt like giving up? Maybe you're in a season right now that you feel like. Given up. Maybe you just said I'm going to go this call. I know Crissy is not going to do anything for me, but I'm just going to see what she's going to throw out at me. Maybe it'll spark something. Or maybe you said I'm going to come to this call because I know I'm going to have continuous opportunities to have comebacks in my business. Or maybe you came to this call because you didn't really know why, but you felt called just recently. Yes, I thought the move would take it all away. I absolutely agree. Yeah, absolutely, absolutely. So I want to bring this up. Just, let's have a look. I know we've had some energy here. I just want to, like, bring the US to reality really quick. For a second, we already said that. I get a little ahead of my slides, by the way, but I am not a therapist. I am not a medical professional. So if you are walking through something much deeper, like depression, I really want you to reach out to someone who is a licensed professional, because today, what we're focused on is the mindset and strategy for your business. Come back. There are times in our lives where we go through things that are a lot deeper, and that is not what I'm here for. I am here to serve and support you and help you in the ways that I know, how, in the things that I've experienced. And if you need something deeper, like if you want to reach out to me after this call, I have people I can recommend to you, but that's not what I'm here for. Okay? So I just want to make sure that we're really clear on that. Okay, with that being said, let's get started, because we're going to talk about the shift that changes everything. I have a sticky note on my monitor that has been taken down hasn't been taken out for three years, because you told me I've survived 100% of my worst days. I read it every day that I look at my monitor. Yes, it's one of my favorite quotes, one of my favorite quotes, absolutely. So what we're going to talk about, the shift that changes everything is this, is that one second decision, right? The shift that isn't deciding about just not quitting, right? Well, I'm not going to quit. Okay, so what am I going to do? Right? It's really deciding that you're willing to get uncomfortable again. Because, let's be honest, comebacks are uncomfortable. Hitting go live after a video flops uncomfortable. Launching again after noone bought whatever you whatever you sold, right? It's uncomfortable. And the thing is, is that it's rarely true. But I think a lot of times we think I have failure reading on our forehead, right? We think that everybody knows whatever it is that happened, and well, if I show up, all they're going to think about is that time i x, y, z, time i x, y, z, even if you messed up publicly on a video, nobody probably remembers and I've messed up on a video plenty of times. If you've had a launch that flopped, no one probably knows why, because we're all humans, and we all are paying more attention to ourselves than we are what other people are doing. We're consumed with what we're doing, right? What's going on in our life. We all have busy lives, and if somebody has that much time to see that you failed on a failed launch, or you failed for some other reason, then they're probably not your person anyhow, and we gotta quit worried about what they say, right? Because at the end of the day, coming back and understanding that that's taking that uncomfortable action is that discomfort is the doorway to momentum. We have a choice moment. We don't wait for when I've done this, I've said next, you know, the next Monday I'm going to, I'm going to have my comeback. Or the next year, it's going to be my year. You know, next month is going to be my month. Why can't, why can't it start now? Well, we gotta wait for something or someone. You have a choice, you have a decision to make. And the thing is, is that we can have belief right and knowing, which creates forward momentum, or we can have doubt, and that stalls our action and it compounds our invisibility, which means what we are invisible. We are hidden. No one sees us. I want you to be seen. I want you to have your comeback, and whether that is a public comeback that everybody knows you came back from something, or you wait until later to tell it down the line. Do you think I was telling people about what was going on in my life in September of 2020? Heck no, I wasn't telling everybody that. It was too fresh. It was an open wound. Really funny side note, y'all, nobody knows this last night's master class. Was a little this is why I know this masterclass is better. So I don't know if you ever saw my story, but I take stitches out of my husband's neck. Three days ago, my husband was down working on the farm, and it popped open. This is gross. It's disgusting. And so he had to go to urgent care, and I'm on this call thinking, Oh my God, is he going to have to get stitches? This is really deep. What's going to happen, right? But I wasn't talking about that last night. I can talk about it today, because he's good, right? He's good. But last night, I would never mention that on the master class call, but I wasn't my best self because I was worried about what was going on with the back of his neck. And understanding when you're ready to share is great, and sometimes you may never be ready to share, and that's okay, too. Your comeback doesn't have to be public. It can be internal. I love the quote that it's I am where I am because of the choices I made. Here's the thing, there are things that happen to us that we have zero control over we have zero control over, okay, that's very true, but when said, things happen to us, we have a decision. Do we shift? Do we stop? Do we quit? Do we keep going? That decision is ours 100% and so we always get to decide what's the choice I'm making, what's the next step I'm making. I remember when things were really, really hard in 2020 and we were on lockdown, and I remember my mentor at the time, she said, All we can do is the next right thing. That's all we can do. And sometimes that's the step to your comeback. Right is doing the next right thing for you in that moment, in that situation. And that looks different from everybody on this call and everybody watching the replay. It looks different from all of us. Told you I'm going to get ahead of my slides, but the real enemy isn't failure. The real enemy is staying hidden. After it all happens. We talk about this a lot, and we're going to be talking about this a lot in the Omni program, because sometimes the scariest part of visibility isn't the spotlight. It's what happens after a flop. It's what happens after a failure, right? And learning to come back faster is where your power multiplies. And like I said, you already have an undefeated track record of coming back. I love that. This lady, Carol Dweck, she talks a lot about fixed mindset and growth mindset. I can't remember the book that she wrote, but she's a psychology professor at Stanford, or at least used to be when she wrote her book. And the fixed mindset is the belief that failure is a dead end. How many people believe that failure is a dead end? Is a failure and end all be all, unless, as long as you're alive, no, it is not a dead end, right? You are alive. That is not a dead end. You can come back from anything. I 100% believe that a growth mindset is instead of a stop on it's a stop on the road to improvement, right? It's an opportunity for us to shift. It's an opportunity for us to get better. It's an opportunity to do it again, to put in the reps. When I made the decision to start launching every single month and selling every single day, I've had more days of people not buying than I've had people buying. What if I gave up? Right? What if I gave up and I didn't keep going? I'm learning every single day how people buy, how they like to buy, what I do right, what I get to edit right and change and shift. So you want to have a growth mindset, not a fixed mindset. The ability to see failure as an opportunity to learn is huge. And the thing is, is that failure is embarrassing. I admit failure is embarrassing. I've been embarrassed a lot from my failures, but honestly, failure has made me more money than success. Why do you think that is? Why would failure make me more money than success? Any guesses drop in the chat. The thing is, is that a lot of times failure is more of a connector than success. Is because maybe I've reached some success that the people I talk to online, haven't reached yet, but we all have a commonality of failing. We know what it feels like to fail. We've been there. We may not failed in the same way, but we've all failed, right? And so when I talk about my failures, just like that video I talked. About the day I almost killed my business, if I would have said, If I would have said, and this probably got a lot of attention to how I made multi six figures in 24 months like that, or 12 months that would have gotten people's attention too. But the day I killed my business was way more memorable. Why? Because it was emotional, because people could put themselves in my shoes, they've been there. They've we've all wanted to quit many times, sometimes multiple times in a day. We've all been there. And so failure, my failures, my experiences, the things that have happened to me in my past. Those stories connect people more to me than my success stories, and I am pretty willing. I'm willing to bet that that would happen for you too. People can connect with pain, hurt, and people can also connect with a comeback. They can connect with overcoming. I love to say I take sloppy success over perfect failure every day, yes, yes, absolutely. And it does encourage me a lot of times I don't even realize that it was a, you know, a breakdown, you know, going through it. I just move through it, right? And be like, oh yeah. Like, I get to talk about that, but also, there's so many things I talk about. I never in a million years would have believed I would ever admit it online. But I do it to teach. I do it because somebody else is hurting. I hid after, you know, an emotional thing happened to me online. I talked about that when my daughter in law got cancer, and then a week later, found out she was pregnant, I hid. I went into hiding. I went into Savior mode and in person taking care of everybody, but I pulled back from online. Why? Because something was going on in my life, right? So I want you to think about the failures that you've had in your life. Again, I don't really like Conner failures, because I think as long as we learn from them, not a real failure, but really there's things that have taught you opportunities, which is why you're where you're at today, building blocks in a way, yeah, yeah, absolutely you would not be here without the failures you've experienced. I believe that for myself, and I think somewhere, if you haven't ever thought about that, you can believe that for yourself too, which gives you the opportunity to have more comebacks. Alright? What shift do you need to decide on today? Is there a shift that's coming up? Do you need to make a commitment? Do you need to be more visible? Do you need to make a decision? Do you need to be more bold? Do you need to be more consistent? Do you need to be more courageous? Do you need to be less people pleasing? Do you need to be worry less about what people think or what they're going to say about you? Is there a shift that you need to decide on today? Drop in the chat? What's the shift? If you're not comfortable writing it in the chat, I challenge you to write it down if you want to share with me after this masterclass, I'm 100% open to that too. But every comeback starts with the decision that your story is not over, that you literally have nothing to lose, right? Let's go for it. Let's make a change, because what I'm doing is not working. I need my joy back. It's a little bit of everything I was so close to quitting. Yeah, I've been working on getting my confidence up, yes, yes. And how I want you to just understand that the decision that our story isn't over is huge. But how one split decision, like what you wrote in the chat or what you're thinking to yourself right now, how one choice can change the entire trajectory of your life. One choice, one decision. I have no idea where I would be right now, if I quit on September 3 of 2020 I don't know where I would be, but I'm sure glad I didn't get to find out. Now, let's go into the real reason that comebacks stick, and that is. Is rebuilding momentum from zero. How many people feel like they're at zero right now? You can just give me a verbal nod or head shake, whatever, but momentum is built on small, consistent moves, getting up without hitting this news button. It's a little move, right? It's not always easy, but it's a little move. It's a simple move, showing up live after you've not been on video for a while, posting after you took a break from social media. About seven out of 10 getting there, but we'll see that there's more to do. Yeah, yeah, making an offer after a flop, after something flopped, right? You know, I know we have some authors on here writing the next book, even if you get a bad review on Amazon, it's not fun when these things happen, but going back to take the action is what creates the momentum. Big comebacks are built on many comebacks doing the little, small things consistently. Even when they tell you to change from first to third person, yeah, but you know, like getting up, some people getting out of bed is a comeback, a mini comeback. It's a mini comeback commitment. Some people just posting a sentence on social media is a mini comeback commitment. Making micro comebacks help you get to through the bigger comebacks. So much better, but they also build the bigger comebacks. And when we think about this, visibility, consistency and energy create momentum. And I don't care what you define visibility as, right visibility to you may just be posting so that they see that you are showing up. It may be getting on video. It doesn't matter. The point is, is that you have the energy that you know this isn't the end of your story, right? You have the consistency, and you're going to show up some type of visibility to create momentum, because your comeback is not going to happen by sitting still and wishing for it to happen. So I want to challenge you, what's one small, visible move that you can commit to this week. And here's the truth, sometimes your visible move isn't about the world, seeing you. It's about you, seeing you. You seeing you do the thing that you said you do. You keeping a commitment to yourself. You writing the post, even if you don't hit Publish yet. You filming the video, even if it doesn't go live right away, making the offer in your Google Doc, knowing that's going to be your next offer. But you just need a minute. You just need a minute. You need to take a breather. You need to give yourself some grace. See you first see your needs first. I'm not saying live there. I'm not saying keep using that as an excuse, because when you see yourself follow through with little things that you say again, going back to those many comebacks, right? You rebuild the trust in you, and that's what makes external visibility stick? When you keep the promises to yourself you want to have more confidence. Keep promises to yourself. Most of us will keep promises to other people, but we never keep our promises to ourselves, and that's really sad. Visibility starts with self trust. You've gotta see you before the world can see you. And the thing is, is that momentum isn't about doing more. I'm not saying go do 100 lives in July like Crissy did. That's insane, even for me to think about doing it right. It's insane, but it's about doing what compounds. There was this study, if you've ever read, 10x is easier than 2x because when we decide to 2x something, we think, Oh, I just need to double the workload, right? That's what we think in our mind. I just need to do, you know, instead of posting 10 times a week, I need to post 20 times a week, or I need to create, you know, 10 videos a week instead of five. That's what we think in our mind, to 2x something. But the real kicker is, when you want to exponentially increase something, 20% of the things that you do are the needle movers that create 80% of your results. You. You just need to be more intentional and more focused on those. I'm not saying do more. I'm saying be more intentional and be more focused. This is one of the things that you know, when I started revamping Omni, that we talked about, is that it's creating a visibility strategy that works harder than you do. I don't want you living on social media, especially like in the past, like two weeks, like there's just a lot of heavy right? I don't want you living on social media. I don't want you getting your dopamine hits from social media. I want you to get dopamine hits from living your freaking life, living your life. That's where I want your dopamine hits to come from. Who here would agree that it is the little moves that really snowball until the biggest results. My favorite book ever, the compound effect, the little teeny things that we do every single day, compound into big results, into big comebacks. Let's talk about what to focus on for faster opportunities. Totally in love. Compound Effect, yes. So good, so good. So the first thing is, is that repetition creates authority, knowing, being known for one thing, visibility breeds visibility. And when we focus on conviction, the way we feel deep inside about our person, you know, when we think about the thing that we sell, right? Why do we want to sell this to said person? What is this going to do for said person's life? That conviction can create movement in me before anything else. Even if I am feeling like I'm a failure, even if I'm feeling like nothing goes my way, even if I feel like nothing's working, I will do things for other people. One of the best things I ever did for my business when things weren't going well in 2016 and 2017 I started doing free 15 minute phone calls. I'm not saying you have to do this, by the way. I'm just saying I started serving people for free, and it was amazing to me how this changed my life, not because everybody bought from me, because it got me to stop thinking about my problems, because I could help people with theirs, and it really shifted the focus. It's not about shouting louder. It really is about being so consistent that they can't forget you. And a lot of times we don't think about this, but I always remember this quote, you know, worry is like sitting in a rocking chair, you're moving, but you're not going anywhere. And the type of focus that we want to talk about, and the type of momentum we want to talk about is movement that actually takes you somewhere. Because if we sit in that rocking chair right, and we keep rocking, we're just going to keep stewing and thinking about all the embarrassing, the failures and all the things that are keeping us from our comeback. But if we actually start taking action. That's where the game changes. When it comes to social media, a lot of us focus on the lack of engagement, the lack of people watching my video, the lack of people buying when I post something, and we shift that focus to our ideal person, like how this is going to change somebody's life, it will always supersede the vanity numbers. It will always supersede all of those things. I've had videos that nobody's liked. I've never gone viral. I've still created a successful business. So numbers do not matter. Yes, they matter in your bank account, and I totally get that. But start showing up like the numbers don't matter what you see on the screen and your analytics and watch the money start showing up and the numbers start changing in your bank account. Do it for the people. Do it for the result. Do it for the transformation that you can give them. I love watching my clients stop chasing audiences, I really do and really start expanding and and creating collaborations, and, you know, not worrying about the numbers on their podcast, because they know that the value that they bring to the table is so much more so. Does it make sense that intention and focus can create opportunities for you much faster opportunities than focusing on the vanity numbers, the followers that you have or don't have, the numbers of people that are watching your your video. Stop focusing on the vanity numbers, because all they're going to do is do is bring you down. And we want to keep you up, because we want to keep you up for your comeback. And so tap into your soul, tap into your servant's heart, tap into how you can serve and support your people and watch the game change. Who's ready for the comeback framework. It's really simple. It's four things. I challenge you to write this down. I hope you don't have to have a comeback anytime soon, but we're all going to have situations, maybe sometimes, many times a year, right? That we need this we need this framework. And so we talked about this a little bit first, but the number one thing is the decision. I remember, I never have this book around when I talk about it, but it was all these like very successful entrepreneurs. And it was a book about, what would I do if I lost it all? How would I show up in the next 30 days? And my mentor at the time, wrote a section in that book, and she said, the first thing I'm going to do is, I'm if I lost everything day one of my 30 days, I'm going to cry. I'm going to cry. And so the number one thing is, when you make a decision, feel the feels. Don't try to push the feelings away. Feel the feels. Don't live there, but feel the feelings. Reframe yourself into a growth mindset, giving yourself Self Compassion for the failure, the flop, the face plant, whatever happened, right? And say to myself, this does not define me. All this is doing is preparing me for something bigger and better, making that decision. The number one thing we can't move forward and have a comeback if the decision is not there. The second thing is momentum moves. One uncomfortable action a day, I would say visible action, at least that you see, even if the world you're not ready for the world to see, at least that you see you are being your word to yourself. You started with the decision, that's your belief, right? That's your belief. The second thing comes action, and that's how we create momentum. The third thing in this framework is a visibility reset. What worked? What's that? What's those 20% things that create 80% of your revenue or 80% of your results. Review what worked, simplify it. Have clarity around it. Stop doing more. Start doing what compounds. What are those 20% things that are producing the most results for you, and knowing what those are, it's going to be different between me and Rebecca. It's going to be different between me and Carly. Know what they those things are. It's going to be different depending on what platform is your favorite platform, right? That's going to change the game. It's going to be different depending on who your ideal eye on who your ideal audience is, but know what that is. And the next thing, the fourth thing, is consistency results and validation. And I added the word validation in here because I had consistency in results. And the thing is, is that some of us may not have clients with results yet, or they're not telling us their results. So the first thing is, validate yourself. You know what you're doing. You won't be on this call if you didn't, if you weren't ready to have a comeback. You know what you're doing. You are an expert in whatever it is that you do own that validate yourself. Quit waiting for everybody else to tell you you're doing a you you're doing a good job. Quit waiting for everybody else to validate you. Validate yourself. Number one, the number one things that that has helped serve and support me. I am an expert. Maybe people aren't showing up like I'm the expert yet, but that all can change, that all can be tweaked. I am the one yes. And the thing is, is that I believe we all have God given talents, and he gave them to us to use them, to serve and support others with them. I'm the one to make people cry when they read my stories. Yeah, emotions like, you know, I always look at a book, it's like a chance to like, just like, get away from my life, right? And just like, dream in somebody else's and be entertained. But the thing is, is that you only fail if you stop showing up or you give up, you validate yourself, you share the results that your people are getting when they work with you, when they buy with you. But most of us go. Out the results for ourselves, first owning, owning, owning those results and being consistent about talking about them. I want you to type this in the chat. Ready. My comeback doesn't wait on anyone or anything else but me. My comeback doesn't wait on anyone or anything else but me. Let's say it one more time. My comeback doesn't wait on anyone or anything else but me. It starts now. It starts right now. You get to decide. You make the decision. I'm not here to twist your arm. I'm not even here to convince you. I'm here to guide you along the way and show you that what's possible, show you your track record. And that's magical. Yes, I love I love all of the the sentences in the in the chat. That's awesome. I love it. I love it. I love it. Like, how many times can we say that to ourselves today, or put it on a sticky note, or put it on your calendar, put it on your reminder. You know, this framework is super simple. It's just like doing the things. The hardest thing is make a decision. The second hardest thing is taking the action. But once we get that, it's like going over that speed bump. Once we get that going, we can start right. We get that momentum going, we create the consistency we have, the visibility reset. We're doing, the things that create 80% of our results. And it's beautiful. This framework is built. It's like the heartbeat of how I built my business, how I run my business, what I teach inside of my programs. You know it's like, if the comeback is your reset, if this masterclass is your reset, Omni is your roadmap, because everything I've shared today is the exact foundation I still use. But your comeback doesn't stop with that one decision. It's like, what can give you the structure, the support and the system to keep momentum Alive Day after day? And so I want to challenge you, if you're looking for that, because you have the four part framework right to have your comeback, and if you're looking for the thing that that changes and keeps you in momentum and keeps you keeping up with your comeback and have bigger comebacks over and over and over, the next step is truly joining a program with a community and support. And here's the thing that even my Omni members don't know, that I'm going to tell you is that starting in October, there are weekly calls, there's weekly coaching calls. Starting in October, there's no excuse not to tap in to continue your comeback. And so I challenge you, if you're looking for something that's going to give you that structure, if you're looking for something that's going to give you that momentum and creating strategies that work harder than you do, I challenge you to reach out to me and find out more information about Omni if you feel like that's the next step for you. I want to thank you all for showing up for yourself today, for the comeback, and I want to give you the opportunity to ask questions. So if there's something that I didn't go deep enough on, or you have a question about something specific that's going on in your life or your business, even if you want to give me a high level overview, and don't want to go through all of it, like, shoot, send them to me. Like, put them in the chat. And if you want to unmute yourself, you can do that too. But if you have a question, drop it, and I would love to support you right now, before we go from this call, I'm so ready to watch you all have your comeback. I'm so ready to cheer you on and celebrate with you, because I know all of the magic that can happen. I think you covered everything I needed to hear. Yes. Who's excited about having the replay? Do you need to listen to this more again and again and again? Q4, baby, let's go yes, yes, absolutely, absolutely. I just want you to remember my 2020, story. I really thought it was over. Thought it was over, and I made the decision to come back. And I want that for you. I want you to decide. I want you to move. I want you to reset, and then I want you to repeat it all. And. If you want support living this out daily again, check out the Omni program. It's Omni Queens com. If you want to check it out. If you have questions about it, or want to talk to me about it, let me know. But it is going to be a game changer for you and your business, your momentum and your comeback, and this is where we do it together. Thank you all so much for coming today, for letting me pour into you, and I am here again, offline, like off this zoom if you want to reach out to me in Messenger, I'm here to serve and support you in any way that I can. So thank you so much for coming today, and I will see you on the next one. Bye, friends.